Just Engaged? Here’s Where to Start

A Warm Welcome to the Beginning of Your Wedding Journey

A new year brings fresh beginnings — and if you’re reading this newly engaged, congratulations! Whether your proposal happened during the holidays or just as the year turned, this season is one of excitement, emotion, and possibility.

At Tropical Moon Events, we know the early days of engagement can feel both magical and overwhelming. Questions start to swirl, Pinterest boards begin to grow, and suddenly everyone has advice. Before the planning takes over, take a breath — you don’t need all the answers right away.

Here’s a simple, thoughtful place to begin.


Pause + Celebrate This Season

Before diving into logistics, give yourself permission to enjoy being engaged. Celebrate together, share the news in a way that feels right for you, and soak in this moment before shifting into planning mode.

This season is about joy — not deadlines.


Talk About What Truly Matters to You

One of the most important early steps is an honest conversation with your partner about your vision.

Ask each other:

  • What do we want this day to feel like?
  • Do we envision something intimate or a larger celebration?
  • What elements matter most — location, guest experience, design, culture?

You don’t need specifics yet — just clarity on what matters.


Choose the Right Location Before the Details

For couples dreaming of a wedding in Hawai‘i, location sets the tone for everything else. Each island offers its own rhythm, scenery, and experience — from lush gardens to oceanfront estates and luxury resorts.

Before falling in love with details, focus on:

  • Which island feels most aligned with your vision
  • Guest travel considerations
  • The overall atmosphere you want to create

Once location is decided, the rest begins to fall into place.


Create a Realistic Planning Timeline

Destination weddings often require more lead time than expected. Most couples benefit from beginning the planning process 12–18 months in advance, especially for peak seasons in Hawai‘i.

An experienced planner helps you:

  • Build a realistic timeline
  • Secure trusted vendors
  • Navigate permits, logistics, and local guidelines
  • Stay organized without feeling overwhelmed

Consider Bringing in a Planner Early

One of the most common things we hear from couples is:
“I wish we had hired a planner sooner.”

A planner isn’t just for the final months — we guide you from the very beginning, helping you make confident decisions, avoid costly missteps, and create an experience that feels seamless and intentional.

At Tropical Moon Events, we approach planning with hospitality at the heart of everything we do — always considering not just the event, but the experience for you and your guests.


Start Gathering Inspiration (Without Pressure)

Inspiration is meant to excite you, not overwhelm you. As you begin collecting ideas, focus on:

  • Color palettes that reflect Hawai‘i’s natural beauty
  • Textures, florals, and materials you’re drawn to
  • The mood you want your celebration to hold

Trust that your design will evolve — that’s part of the process.


Your Journey Starts Here

Every love story is unique — and your wedding should be too. Whether you’re just beginning to explore venues or ready to start planning in earnest, we’d be honored to guide you through this season with care, expertise, and intention. Every love story is unique—let’s start planning yours.
[Reach out today to begin the journey.]

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Based on Oahu, Tropical Moon Events is a boutique planning company specializing in weddings, elopements, and intimate celebrations. With a deep love for island hospitality and a passion for thoughtful design, we craft personalized experiences that feel effortless, meaningful, and unforgettable.

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